Love each other as I have loved you. [John 15:12]
A few weekends ago, the 11
Americans working with AgriCorps in this region of Ghana met for the first
monthly meeting. We had just spent our first weeks in our assigned communities and
had plenty to talk about – crazy stories, complaints, weird discoveries, good
and bad experiences, interesting living situations, and the things we miss
about America. At one point, we decided to go around the room and have each
person share their favorite moment from the last few weeks. Any of us could
have easily mentioned a delicious new food we tried or seeing a beautiful,
tropical part of Ghana or learning how to complete everyday tasks in a
developing country or successfully implementing a new idea; but we didn’t.
Every single person told a story
about how they connected with another person in some way. There were stories
about making someone laugh, even though they didn’t speak English…not feeling
well and having a student bring you a baby bird to make you feel better…walking
your neighbor’s kids to school, hand-in-hand, every morning. Our favorite and
most memorable moments are those that involve relationship with another person.
I want to share some of the people
who have entered my life since arriving in Ghana.
Madam Peace is a home economics teacher at our
school. She is also in charge of the girl boarding students, so she lives with
us next to the girls’ dormitory. On the day she arrived, I extended my hand to
shake hers as I introduced myself. She ignored the hand and went straight for
the hug. I doubt we would have survived our first week of school without Peace
– she has guided us around the school, taught us how to cook Ghanaian food,
accompanied us to the market, invited us to her family dinners, given impromptu
language lessons and greeted us every single morning with a cheery, “Good
morning!!! How are you?!” She now refers to Kyler and me as her son and
daughter, and treats us as such. We are extremely blessed and thankful to live
with Peace!
Adwoa is Madam Peace’s 9-year old daughter. She was
shy at first, but is getting more and more comfortable with the obronis (foreigners) living with her.
Almost every night after supper, Kyler and Adwoa play the game they invented in
the living room (which is mostly void of breakables). The game involves
throwing/kicking a ball around and only has one rule: do not cross the board
that is between the two players. By the end of the game, both Kyler and Adwoa
are cracking up.
Mr. Sakitey is one of the agriculture teachers here at the school. Since
day one, he has been amazingly helpful and has welcomed me as a co-teacher and
co-advisor to the new 4-H club. I am always encouraged by his commitment to his
students and their success. In order to help them improve their test scores, he
has started a weekly “quiz bowl” after school. The students are divided into
teams and he is posting their rankings as the year progresses; the students
love the competition. Unfortunately, many teachers in Ghana put very little
time and effort into helping their students learn, so the fact that Mr. Sakitey
is taking extra time to do this is especially awesome.
Deborah is a boarding student I met one evening when I was sitting
outside the house. She sat and talked with me for a while and I learned that
she loved singing church songs. After singing a couple of songs in Twi, she
started singing one in English, Ancient
Words. I freaked out a little when I recognized the song – it had been so
long since I heard someone sing a worship song I was familiar with. We sang
together and she completely made my night! I see Deborah quite often and I can
say that she is one of the most positive people I know. She makes me and the
other students laugh when she is trying to tell me something (half English,
half Twi) and I don’t understand but she, literally, cannot stop smiling.
Joy…is not technically a person. Joy is a male cat.
He lives around our house because we feed him our extra food scraps. Sometimes
he is friendly, others times he acts like a crazy jungle cat and freaks out
when you get near him. I put Joy on this list for one reason: he kills the
lizards, snakes and creepy things near our house. For that, I am grateful. J